Sunday 10 November 2013

On Giving and Praying

 On Giving & Praying

Archbishop's Charity Dinner

His Grace, Archbishop Terence Prendergast
speaking at 2013 Archbishop's Charity Dinner
On Wednesday, October 16, 2013 approximately 700 people gathered for the sixth annual Archbishop's Charity Dinner at the Ottawa Conference and Event Centre. The event, hosted by the Most Reverend Terrence Prendergast, SJ, Archbishop of Ottawa, raised money for the foundations of the four Catholic school boards in the Archdiocese, including the Catholic Education Foundation of Ottawa. These foundations all assist children in need. The Ottawa Catholic School Board had three tables at the event to support the cause, and I was honoured to be a part of the board's delegation. 




United Way Campaign 2013

The Ottawa Catholic School Board launched its 2013 United Way Campaign in early October.  It has been recognized in the past for the incredible generosity of its nearly 4,000 employees.  





Ottawa Catholic's remarkable campaigns of the past are summarized below:

2008 Campaign:     $489,544      
                                                        2009 Campaign:     $565,115  
                                                        2010 Campaign:     $555,555  
                                                        2011 Campaign:     $562,050
                                                        2012 Campaign:     $533,510    

In 2011, the Board was also ranked first in The Ottawa Business Journal's Book of Lists for the Top United Way Campaign in the city of Ottawa, based on total amount of staff contributions.

This year's campaign target was set at $550,000.  However, this target has been exceeded!   

Please click on the link below to view the Board's 2013 video, promoting not only the United Way but as well its own Catholic Education Foundation: 



Catholic Spiritual Practices

edited by Colleen M. Griffith & Thomas M. Groome

This book offers fresh perspectives, by multiple authors, on traditional Catholic practices of prayer, practices of care, and practices of growth.  It establishes that the main purpose of spiritual practice is a “deeper relational life” with God.  I particularly like the sections "Praying with The Saints", “Intercessory Prayer”, "Practicing Forgiveness", "Family Life as Spiritual Practice", "The Ignatian Examen", and "Thanksgiving After Communion".



Practices of Prayer
In the chapter on The Lord’s Prayer, N. T. Wright nicely summarizes this prayer that unites Christians around the world: “It divides into two parts, the first containing three petitions about God’s purposes and glory, and the second, three petitions for human need.”  The human needs are “bread for today”, forgiveness of sin and debt, and rescue from danger and evil.

Elizabeth A. Johnson brings a fresh and meaningful perspective to the traditional concept of the communion of saints.  Rather than view them as holy ones in heaven to be venerated, they should be honoured as companions or dear friends of the faith.  Instead of asking the saints to petition God on our behalf, we can pray to God in “profound gratitude” for the witness and examples of the saints’ lives and in sorrow over their martyrdom.   The lives of the saints should be a source of encouragement to us and a call to confront the social and political structures that caused injustices towards them.

Ann and Barry Ulanov in “Intercessory Prayer – A Practice of Praying for Others”, emphasize the transformational effect of prayers we offer for others, including prayers for our loved ones, those who are suffering, and even our enemies.  Intercessory prayer alters us as we “open up” or “soften” to the plight of those we pray for, empathizing with them and accepting the limited control we have over the welfare of others and ourselves.

Prrayer Table - St. Cecilia


Practices of Care
The nature of forgiveness is clarified in “Practicing Forgiveness”, by Marjorie J. Thompson.  She emphasizes that forgiving is neither denying the hurt inflicted on you by another nor completely forgetting about the wrong.  Furthermore, to forgive someone does not mean “putting the other one on probation”.  In other words, true forgiveness is unconditional and not dependent on better behaviour by the one who committed the wrong.  Instead, to forgive is to make a deliberate choice “to release the person who has wounded us from the sentence of our judgment”, even when he/she is deserving of that judgment.  By forgiving others, we behave as Jesus did and “participate in the mystery of God’s love.”

In “Family Life as Spiritual Practice”, Wendy M. Wright elaborates on two important spiritual practices for those with a busy family life.  The first is the practice of availability – a “profound willingness to be present to others in the family”, keeping their interests in mind and attending to their critical needs.  This selfless devotion to our family is loving others “as God has loved us”.  The second practice is the “art of Sabbath keeping”.  This practice involves finding time amidst the busyness of life for rest and rejuvenation through family prayer and restorative moments together.

Practices of Spiritual Growth
Dennis Hamm offers in “The Ignatian Examen” a 5-step approach to a daily examination of conscience.  It begins with a prayer for illumination or understanding amidst the confusion of everyday life.  Next comes a review of the day with a focus not on your mistakes and sins but rather on the small blessings and gifts that you received.  This should be followed by a review of both the good and troubling feelings that that come to mind during the replay of the day.  From these feelings, select the one that most impacts you, and pray as you focus on this feeling – whether negative or positive.   Lastly, shift your focus to tomorrow, and pray for help or healing as you move forward.



Thomas Groome provides a 5-part prayerful response that one can use following the reception of Eucharist in “Thanksgiving after Communion”.   By, appropriately, focusing on the word ALTAR, one can easily remember the stages of the response:
-          Adoration involves pausing in awe at this moment of encounter with Jesus;
-          Love should then be expressed for Jesus and for others;
-          Talk openly then to Jesus, sharing with Him your hopes and fears, joys and sorrows;  
-          Ask Jesus for the graces you most need;
-          Repent and resolve to live as Jesus’ disciple.